So a lot of you have been asking about where my christmas dating blog is at??? Well, I have decided not to post my blogs until after all of my dates are complete... yes, The Bachelor Style. I will be releasing the blogs one by one after all of them are complete. The motivation behind writing these blogs is not to hurt anyone's feelings, and I'm genuinely sorry if that happens, which I know it probably will. I just want to be as honest as I can, and tell my dating stories as if I were telling a girlfriend. So if you can't handle that, please do NOT read! If you are under 18... also please do NOT read! lol. If you are my mother or father... read at your own risk! If I work with you, please do not read either, or at least don't judge!
For those of you who don't know what this is all about: I posted a couple minute video on the internet looking for dates. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1zFHca-ptM Asking that the guys write to me and tell me what they want to do on the dates. I am informing them that I am blogging about our experience. Maybe not the best way to get dates, because people will either want to be phony, or they don't want to be blogged about and might pass up the opportunity. To them, I say grow a pair! (In the nicest way of course :))... I am not using any names or faces in these blogs... so I don't think it will hurt! Plus, will it not be refreshing to get an honest opinion on a date that you wouldn't otherwise receive?
In all honesty, it's tough being a 26/female that is out in the dating world... especially one like myself who is constantly busy busy busy. By tough, I don't mean finding dates. I actually go on plenty... but most of them bomb. It's hard to meet someone you're compatible with, but mostly that you have chemistry with, and even harder to find both! Guys my age (no offense) tend to be a little behind on the maturity level, and older guys that I might want to date, are generally already married, darn it! I know that I am still young and have plenty of time to find my soul mate... yady yada. BUT, I still want to have fun and date until I do!
The holiday's especially are a tough time to be alone, I'm not gonna lie. I don't think anyone likes it, so I decided to get creative and get me some dates! Do I want to go out with someone that I might potentially like?... absolutely! I don't want to go out with just the first guy to respond... I want to at least think I might be interested in the potential bachelor.
Again, these dates are solely from my opinion on how it went. And in the end, I would like to share my opinion on what makes a good first date from my experiences, at least in my eyes. And hopefully come out of it with a 2nd or 3rd date that I wouldn't have met otherwise! :)
There will be an update on if I am dating anyone by the end of it! :)
Subscribe at your own risk! And please enjoy...
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